Thirds of a feather flock together.” This JJfolk wisdom speaks of one of the basic human instincts—to identify and associate with an “in-group,” be it a tribe, a race, a nation, or a culture.
Human beings are social animals who desire to live in the company of others with a sense of shared identity. In this sense, the question of who we are as individuals is inextricably linked to people with whom we share a common identity.
Particularly in the context of intercultural communication, it is this collective dimension of identity that often surfaces as the primary entity influencing how the interactants see themselves and each other. Even as the forces of globalization diminish traditional physical and social group boundaries, the desire for a sense of belonging continues to drive the psychological tendency to define and differentiate oneself from others. Within and across societies, the seemingly innocent banner of collective in-group identity is used as a source of power, symbolic or real, galvanizing individuals into an “us-against-them” posture and creating stress, strain, and conflict in inter- cultural relationships. Such conflict-inducing nature of identity along the lines of group categories are amply documented in social science literature, not to mention the daily news headlines from around the world highlighting the seemingly irrepressible hostilities perpetuating in the name of identity.Often sidelined by the prevailing conflicts associated with group-based collective identities, however, is the fact that, at the individual level, identity vis-a-vis a social group category is also a dynamic and pliable entity that can be negotiated, accommodated, and changed over time through extensive and cumulative inter- cultural experiences. Many urban centers present culturally diverse social contexts in which the natives, some of whom are themselves culturally and ethnically mixed, routinely come into face-to-face encounters with nonnatives. Such intercultural contacts and communication experiences often lead to interpersonal relationships in which the very notion of in-group is blurred and changed. Furthermore, individuals of differing ethnic and cultural backgrounds, as well as immigrants and temporary sojourners, have amply demonstrated that individuals do cross group boundaries and manage their experiences of intercultural conflict, and in the process, their identities evolve in the direction of greater complexity beyond the lines of conventional group categories.
Recognizing such conflictive, constructive, and transformative potentials of identity in inter- cultural communication, the author examines a broad range of literature across social science disciplines to address two basic questions guiding the present examination: (1) How does an individual’s identity influence intercultural conflict and cooperation? and (2) How do intercultural conflict experiences influence an individual’s identity over time?In seeking to address these two questions by surveying pertinent literature, the focus of attention is placed on the microlevel phenomenon of direct contact and communication activities involving individuals of dissimilar cultural backgrounds. Intercultural conflict is defined broadly as a state of stress or strain in intercul- tural relationship—a state that entails a degree of “either an explicit or implicit interpersonal struggle process” (Ting-Toomey, 2005a, p. 72). A similarly inclusive definition is applied to the term culture to refer not only to the shared life patterns associated with a society or nation but also to those patterns associated with distinct ethnic (including racial or languagebased) groups within a society. Accordingly, any interpersonal encounter is considered “intercul- tural” whenever the interactants differ, or perceive themselves to be different from each other, in cultural or subcultural backgrounds. The term intercultural conflict is likewise employed to represent related terms such as interethnic, interracial, and intergroup conflict.
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