Families Reconstituted
The rejection of legal and biological ties should not be understood as an absolute rejection of family altogether. As I have argued elsewhere, the replacement of the rejected biological family with an adopted Christian family is prevalent in the acts of the martyrs.[599] Elements of this can be seen in the beginning of the Testament of the Forty Martyrs of Sebaste, which expands the concept of family:
For the invisible God is revered in our brothers whom we see;[600] and though this saying refers to our biological siblings, the meaning is extended to all those who love Christ.
For our God and holy Saviour declared to be brothers not those who shared a common nature, but rather those who were bound together in the faith by good deeds and who fulfill the will of our Father who is in heaven.[601]This passage in the Testament of the Forty Martyrs is in some ways rather pedestrian. It extends the familial relationship to members of the Christian congregation. While the Testament of the Forty Martyrs seems happy to construct the Christian family as a “brotherhood of all believers,”[602] other martyr acts attempt to restrict membership even further. The Latin version of the Acts of Phileas, as we have already seen, places the martyrs within a special family of martyrs and apostles. Phileas’s rejection of his family follows the pattern of Socrates and grounds itself in a particular kind of biblical interpretation. There is also, however, the acquisition of a new family of martyrs and apostles to which, through martyrdom, Phileas will be joined.
Phileas is not alone in narrowing the martyrs’ family to a select few. Origen, in his Exhortation to Martyrdom, tentatively reinterprets Matt 10:2930 so that the martyrs become heads of their own families of believers:
And if there are fathers about whom it was said to Abraham, “You shall go to your fathers in peace when you have been buried in a good old age,” someone might say (though I do not know whether he would be speaking the truth) that perhaps those fathers are those who were once martyrs and left children behind, in return for whom they have become fathers of the fathers, the patriarch Abraham and the other patriarchs.
For in all likelihood those who have left children behind and become martyrs are fathers not of infants but of fathers.[603]Origen’s vision of the martyr’s family offers an interesting interpretation of the rejection of family motif.[604] The rejection of children is a strategic affair: earthly children are given up in favor of mature patriarchal offspring. Once again, we see the creation of a better kind of family, this time of patriarchs and martyrs, in which the martyrs head up the super-family in the heavens.[605] Given the patriarchal structure of the Roman household, the promotion to the head of a family of patriarchs underscores the elevated position of the martyr in the Christian hierarchy. Whereas ordinarily God would serve as the father of the Christian family, the martyr is repositioned as “father of fathers.”
The evidence for the widespread rejection and reconstruction of family in the Christian martyr acts suggests that the rejection motif in Perpetua (and also Agape, Irene, and Chione and Carpus, Papylus and Agathonike) is not just a question of gender.[606] Both men and women abandon their family to pursue martyrdom. While the rejection of family theme serves to masculinize female martyrs, it is not, as some have argued, exclusive to the presentation of women.[607] The masculinization of female martyrs overlaps and intersects with the broader construction of the Christian family in the martyr acts.
Given the ways in which martyr acts deconstruct and reconstruct the idea of family, it is worth reconsidering the case of Perpetua and Felicity and the ways in which the heroines relate to their families. How does this model of rejection and acquisition alter our interpretation of Perpetua? In the case of Perpetua, attitudes to family are more complicated than they first appear. She is, as is frequently noted, close to the Christian members of her family.[608] Perpetua has two brothers (excluding Dinocrates who died young) but only mentions contact with her Christian brother, who was also a catechumen (2.2).
He visits her in prison and advises her to ask for visions (4.1). When she does leave her child, she entrusts him to the care of her Christian mother and brother (3.8). Of her biological family, only Perpetua’s father seems distressed and unhappy with her predicament (5.4) and her rebellious side only emerges in discussions with her non-Christian father. All of this points to a sustained relationship between Perpetua and the Christian members of her family. It is her non-Christian family that she rejects.In contrast to Perpetua, the author sketches Felicitas’s separation from her child in only the vaguest terms. Pregnant when arrested, Felicitas’s only concern is that her pregnancy will prevent her from being executed with her fellow Christians. Her premature delivery is met with joy, and her child is summarily dispatched to live with a Christian woman: ita enixa est puellam, quam sibi quaedam soror in filiam educauit (15.7). The use of the term soror for a fellow Christian once again invokes the idea of the Christian family.[609] It also generates a subtle double entendre: Felicitas’s child will be raised as if she were part of the woman’s “family,” i.e., as a Christian child. Like Perpetua, Felicitas passes her child to her family, one formed by Christianity rather than biology. Felicitas does not discard her child, she entrusts her to her Christian sister safe in the knowledge that she will be raised appropriately as a spiritual child.
The question of Perpetua’s husband is repeatedly raised by scholars curious about the absence of such a notable figure in her life.[610] In a recent article, Carolyn Osiek has argued that Perpetua’s absentee husband may in fact be Saturus, one of the other martyrs mentioned in the account. Osiek’s argument, while controversial, can be further supported by the recognition that in other, albeit later, martyrdom accounts, married martyrs refer to one another as brother and sister. The Diocletian Coptic Martyrdom of Timothy and Maura portrays the joint crucifixion of a newlywed deacon and his wife.
In exhorting his bride to courage and perseverance, Timothy addresses her as “sister.”[611] This particular account takes great pains to emphasize the short time that the protagonists have been married, so there is no doubt that Maura is Timothy’s wife. We might be tempted to read this account, and the language of siblinghood, as reiterating the martyrological topos of “martyrdom over marriage,” but this is not necessarily the case. In the Song of Songs, the author addresses his wife as “my sister, my bride” (Song 4:12, 5:1).[612] Given that Timothy and Maura are newlyweds, it is possible that the use of sibling imagery serves multiple purposes. On the one hand it is a reference to a conventional Christian practice that privileges membership in the Christian family over other kinds of familial unions, on the other it is an allusion to the romantic marital language of the Song of Songs and serves, therefore, to characterize the event as a tragic romance. Given the tendency to reconfigure familial relationships in the martyr acts, it seems possible that Saturus is Perpetua’s husband. Regardless of whether or not they are married, the account still follows the broader convention of replacing biological family with a spiritual Christian family.[613]E.
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